I’m a cis man seeking to date a trans girl. Just how do I begin?

I’m a cis man seeking to date a trans girl. Just how do I begin?

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Dear Kai,

I’m a 55-year-old “mostly” straight guy who’s always been into trans ladies and quite often extremely feminine males, along with biological females. I’ve stayed in the sides for the LGBTQ2 community for a long, very long time attempting to figure myself out, and I’ve come to realize that the thing I really would like would be to date a transgender girl. […]